Best thrusting vibrators and dildos, tested and reviewed
For when the likes of bullets and finger vibrators just won’t cut it, thrusting dildos and vibrators are guaranteed to take your intimate moment to an even more orgasmic level — and will definitely expand your sex toy horizons. Those who wish to do less during solo play can allow their dildo or vibrator to do the work for them, moving in and out as they simply lie back, relax and enjoy.
“A thrusting dildo and vibrator has a mechanism inside that creates a, well, thrusting motion,” explains sexologist Angel Russell. “It causes the toy to move up and down to give the sensation that thrusting during sex might give, without you actually doing any thrusting with your hands. Other vibrators have the mechanisms that offer the vibration speeds and patterns, but a thrusting toy adds the motion that other toys don’t come with.”
Thrusting vibrators won’t give exactly the same experience as penetrative sex, but they will provide a similar experience with minimal input on your part. Ahead, view our edit of the best thrusting dildos and vibrators, from those designed for vaginas to butts, with multiple speeds and patterns, warming functions and more.
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Meet the expert:
- Angel Russell, sexologist, Board-Certified Sex Educator and author.
Best thrusting dildos and sex toys at a glance 2024:
- Best Overall: Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator, £79.99
- Best Thrusting Rabbit Vibe: Thrusting G-Spot Rampant Rabbit, £58
- Best Under £50: Lovehoney Jessica Rabbit Xtra, £49.99
- Best Thrusting Dildo: Fun Factory Stronic Dildo Vibrator, £127
What things should you consider when picking a thrusting sex toy?
If you're looking for a thrusting sex toy, Russell suggests finding something made of body-safe, medical-grade silicone. “Check the packaging for words like ‘non-porous’ and ‘phthalate-free’ before dropping big bucks on a toy that looks pretty but may harm your body,” they suggest. Porous toys like jelly toys can house bacteria and are harder to clean.
Secondly, some thrusting adult toys are noisy, so you may want to look for something that's specifically advertised as quiet or discreet, Russell says. A few features you also may or may not want to look for are water-resistance, multiple speeds and patterns, and USB-rechargeable specs.
Ultimately though, you should pick what sounds most appealing to you. Everyone has different preferences when it comes to sexual pleasure – so, carefully read through our round-up and decide what sounds best for you. Remember that there’s no right or wrong answer here — and you can always try more thrusting sex toys until you find the perfect fit. Would you like a toy that feels warm and lifelike? Something gentle? If you’re not sure, opt for a good all-rounder with multiple speeds and modes. This way, you can figure it out on your own terms. Decision made? Now the fun begins…
How do you actually use a thrusting dildo or vibrator for the first time?
Before you actually use your thrusting sex toy, don’t forget to add copious amounts of lube. Check the product’s accompanying instructions or website to confirm what type of lube you should be using – whether water-based, silicone-based or oil-based.
Once you’re sufficiently lubed, gently insert the toy into your vagina or anus. Then, once you’re happy and comfortable, you can turn the toy on. This is where things really heat up, because you get to experiment with the different vibration, pulsation and thrusting settings, patterns and intensities until you find your fave modes.
Start slow and build yourself up until you’re a pro. Enlist a partner or try using a pillow to help you enjoy a hands-free climax, though some toys come with straps and suction cups to help. Don’t forget to clean your toy according to its instructions to avoid infection and ensure the good times keep on coming. We've got some expert-rated sex toy cleaners this way.