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Lubricants can also reduce the incidence of cystitis and UTIs. Having vigorous sex can cause the bladder to become inflamed, promoting infection.


What types of lube are there?

Lube comes in a sweetshop of flavours (or none), but follow your eye before your mouth. First, look for a 'pH balanced' label on the bottle. Without this, you risk disrupting the natural bacteria in your vagina, which is like WhatsApping thrush and asking it to join. Then, pick your blend.

Water based lube is best as an all-rounder and is perfect for sex and sex toy use. It is also largely safe with using condoms (though make sure to always check the label just in case)," Annabel said. The only downside is that it can be prone to drying out mid-use due to air exposure or the water in it being absorbed (safely) by your body. Reapply or reactivate with water.

"Silicone lube is the longest lasting type of lube available and is also waterproof – yes that’s right, contrary to popular belief, water is not a lubricant - so if you’re having fun in the shower then this is the one for you. It should be noted however, that silicone lube is NOT compatible with most sex toys - so double check if you're planning to use for that purpose.

“There are also so many other options out there, such as oil-based lube, which is amazing, but for external play only; flavoured lube, which is great for oral sex and anal lube which is specially formulated to be longer-lasting. There is also warming or tingling lube as well as organic options – so with so much choice it’s worth trying out a few options to see what works best for you. Don’t be afraid to mix it up!”


Can you use lube with condoms?

One simple rule here: latex condoms can't handle oil-based lubricants. Non-latex condoms (i.e. Durex Latex Free) are suitable with all types of lubricant, so if your chosen method of contraception is condoms, we'd recommend going latex-free.


Can lube be used with sex toys?

Water-based lube can be used with sex toys, yes, but silicone lube is not compatible silicone sex toys – of which most are. Silicone lube degrades silicone toys, eventually ruining them.


Can lube give you thrush?

On one hand, lube is great for giving the dreaded thrush the boot. The friction during quickies or rough sex encourages heat and small grazes to the walls of the vagina. These encourage bacterial growth, leading to thrush. Cut friction and you stop micro-tears, leaving a happier V-zone.

However, artificial ingredients in some lubes were not built with crotch sanity in mind. Your vagina and clitoris are highly absorbent, so parabens, petroleum-based ingredients (found in petroleum jelly), glycerin and glucose can promote yeast infections and leave your vagina feeling itchy, sore and uncomfortable. If you're prone to sensitivity, give dyes a wide berth too, and look for natural flavourings, not artificial ones (often full of thrush-spawning sugars like glycerine or glycol).

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