19 best lubes for sex and masturbation 2024
“Lube is the unsung hero of sex and masturbation," Annabelle Knight, sex and relationship expert at Lovehoney tells us. "It can take sex to another level, but is also really important for making sex and solo-play more accessible and comfortable for those experiencing vaginal dryness. And is a must for anyone having anal sex."
“There is a misconception, however, that it is only suitable for those with specific needs, or older women, when really it should be used by EVERYONE," she continued. “Whenever engaging in any sort of sexual act. Not just for function, but for pleasure too, lube should be every sexually-active person's best friend.”
Whether you’re looking for condom-safe lube, the best lube for sensitive skin, the best water-based lube or organic lube, there’s no better time than right now to experiment. Women are taking their pleasure into their own hands, after all. But not all lubes are created equal. If your bedside table lube collection is currently population zero, our guide to the best lube should help to settle on the best sex lube for you. Here’s everything you need to know, plus GLAMOUR’s edit of the best lubricants that money can buy. Tried and tested, of course…
SKIP TO: Why is it good to use lube during sex? | What are the different types of lube? | What type of lube lasts the longest? | Can you use lube with condoms? | Can you use lube with sex toys? | Does lube give you thrush? | Our full reviews | How we tested the best lubes.
Meet the expert:
- Annabelle Knight, sex and relationship expert at Lovehoney.
In a rush? Best lube 2024 at a glance:
- Best Lubricant Overall: Roam Front Lubricant, £12.49
- Best Cream Lube: Olive and Bee Intimate Cream Lubricant, £19.99
- Best Water-Based Lube: LELO Personal Moisturising Lubricant, £11
- Best Natural Lube: Maude Shine Lube, £18
- Best Libido-Boosting Lube: Intimate Serum, £48
- Best Anal Lube: Coco De Mer Radiant Bloom Anal Lubricant, £30
How we test:
We don’t take the decision to crown a product “the best” in a category lightly, so when we create round-ups of the best period pants for a sustainable period, the best duvets for your best ever sleep or the best cream blushers for an elevated complexion, we aim to test as many products featured as possible. Here, we've road-tested as many lubes as possible for at least a week, scoring them on their ingredients, how long-lasting they were and whether they irritated our skin. For those we've not tested, we've referred to customer reviews and expert recommendations.
What are the benefits of using lube?
ICYMI, the best lubes can help to avoid injury and discomfort, as well as tearing (ouch). There's a plethora of reasons why you might not get as wet as you'd like on occasion – including reduced oestrogen levels and stress – but the best lubes are here to banish the issue and heighten intimacy levels with your partner – or yourself – immeasurably. Consider orgasms from anal sex, penetrative sex your best vibrator a whole lot more enjoyable. (Though avoid silicone-based lubricants for encounters of the latter kind, as they can sometimes react with silicone sex toys).
Lubricants can also reduce the incidence of cystitis and UTIs. Having vigorous sex can cause the bladder to become inflamed, promoting infection.
What types of lube are there?
Lube comes in a sweetshop of flavours (or none), but follow your eye before your mouth. First, look for a 'pH balanced' label on the bottle. Without this, you risk disrupting the natural bacteria in your vagina, which is like WhatsApping thrush and asking it to join. Then, pick your blend.
“Water based lube is best as an all-rounder and is perfect for sex and sex toy use. It is also largely safe with using condoms (though make sure to always check the label just in case)," Annabel said. The only downside is that it can be prone to drying out mid-use due to air exposure or the water in it being absorbed (safely) by your body. Reapply or reactivate with water.
"Silicone lube is the longest lasting type of lube available and is also waterproof – yes that’s right, contrary to popular belief, water is not a lubricant - so if you’re having fun in the shower then this is the one for you. It should be noted however, that silicone lube is NOT compatible with most sex toys - so double check if you're planning to use for that purpose.
“There are also so many other options out there, such as oil-based lube, which is amazing, but for external play only; flavoured lube, which is great for oral sex and anal lube which is specially formulated to be longer-lasting. There is also warming or tingling lube as well as organic options – so with so much choice it’s worth trying out a few options to see what works best for you. Don’t be afraid to mix it up!”
Can you use lube with condoms?
One simple rule here: latex condoms can't handle oil-based lubricants. Non-latex condoms (i.e. Durex Latex Free) are suitable with all types of lubricant, so if your chosen method of contraception is condoms, we'd recommend going latex-free.
Can lube be used with sex toys?
Water-based lube can be used with sex toys, yes, but silicone lube is not compatible silicone sex toys – of which most are. Silicone lube degrades silicone toys, eventually ruining them.
Can lube give you thrush?
On one hand, lube is great for giving the dreaded thrush the boot. The friction during quickies or rough sex encourages heat and small grazes to the walls of the vagina. These encourage bacterial growth, leading to thrush. Cut friction and you stop micro-tears, leaving a happier V-zone.
However, artificial ingredients in some lubes were not built with crotch sanity in mind. Your vagina and clitoris are highly absorbent, so parabens, petroleum-based ingredients (found in petroleum jelly), glycerin and glucose can promote yeast infections and leave your vagina feeling itchy, sore and uncomfortable. If you're prone to sensitivity, give dyes a wide berth too, and look for natural flavourings, not artificial ones (often full of thrush-spawning sugars like glycerine or glycol).
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